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30 Prill 2026<\/p>\n
Kjo gravur\u00eb, ashtu si edhe p\u00ebrshkrimi i ngjarjes q\u00eb ke sjell\u00eb, pasqyron nj\u00eb fenomen t\u00eb err\u00ebt, por dometh\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb Anglis\u00eb s\u00eb shekujve XVIII-XIX: shitja publike e grave, nj\u00eb praktik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ishte ligj\u00ebrisht e vlefshme, por n\u00eb disa rrethana shihej si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb \u201ce pranueshme\u201d shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar. Le t\u00eb zgjerojm\u00eb dhe pasurojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ngjarje dhe kontekstin e saj:<\/p>\n
N\u00eb vitin 1832, qyteti anglez i Carlisle u b\u00eb skena e nj\u00eb ngjarjeje sa tragjike aq edhe groteske, q\u00eb mbart n\u00eb vetvete nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi t\u00eb qart\u00eb t\u00eb pozit\u00ebs s\u00eb gruas n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri patriarkale dhe t\u00eb dhunshme n\u00eb heshtje. Joseph Thomson, nj\u00eb fermer nga Cumbria, mori vendimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb “shitur” gruan e tij, Mary Anne Thomson, n\u00eb nj\u00eb treg publik \u2013 jo thjesht si akt rebelimi ndaj nj\u00eb martese t\u00eb palumtur, por si nj\u00eb ritual i turpsh\u00ebm i shk\u00ebputjes s\u00eb lidhjes martesore.<\/p>\n
E gjith\u00eb skena u zhvillua n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb teatrale. Thomson e vendosi Mary Anne mbi nj\u00eb karrige prej druri t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb, si nj\u00eb simbol i mallrave n\u00eb ankand. Nj\u00eb kap\u00ebse prej kashte, e lidhur rreth qaf\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, e paraqiste at\u00eb jo si nj\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore, por si nj\u00eb kafsh\u00eb n\u00eb treg. Nj\u00eb litar e lidhte me dor\u00ebn e burrit, i cili, duke q\u00ebndruar mbi nj\u00eb platform\u00eb, nisi fjalimin e tij para nj\u00eb turme t\u00eb mbledhur, q\u00eb e shihte k\u00ebt\u00eb akt me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrzierje kurioziteti, habie dhe ndoshta edhe zbavitjeje t\u00eb pashpirt.<\/p>\n
Me tone t\u00eb hidhura dhe cinike, Thomson tha:<\/p>\n
\u201cM\u00eb duhet t’jua ofroj gruan time, Mary Anne Thomson… ajo ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr mua vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr i lindur.\u201d<\/p>\n
E portretizoi at\u00eb si nj\u00eb barr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb mallkim, duke p\u00ebrshkruar t\u00eb metat e saj t\u00eb supozuara me nj\u00eb poezi t\u00eb zymt\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk munguan edhe \u201creklamat\u201d p\u00ebr aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj:<\/p>\n
\u201cAjo mund t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb romane dhe t\u00eb mjel\u00eb lop\u00ebt; ajo mund t\u00eb k\u00ebndoj\u00eb melodit\u00eb e Moore-it dhe t\u00eb qart\u00ebsoj\u00eb frikat dhe kapelet e saj.\u201d<\/p>\n
Kjo p\u00ebrzierje ofendimesh dhe virtytesh e shnd\u00ebrroi ngjarjen n\u00eb nj\u00eb tragjikomed\u00ed t\u00eb jet\u00ebs reale.<\/p>\n
Ankandi nisi me nj\u00eb \u00e7mim prej 50 shilingash, por mungesa e interesit e detyroi Thomsonin ta ulte vler\u00ebn. N\u00eb fund, ai e pranoi ofert\u00ebn prej 20 shilingash dhe nj\u00eb qen t\u00eb rac\u00ebs Newfoundland, e cila u ble nga nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr fermer, nga Z. Henry Mears.<\/p>\n
Ky ankand nuk ishte ligj\u00ebrisht i vlefsh\u00ebm, sepse ligjet e Mbret\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb Bashkuar nuk parashikonin shitjen e gruas, por kjo praktik\u00eb u b\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e heshtur, shpesh e mbuluar nga nj\u00eb pakt i pashkruar social, p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund martesave pa u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb procedurat e kushtueshme t\u00eb divorcit, t\u00eb rezervuara vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr elit\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Ky incident nuk ishte i vetmi. Midis shekullit XVIII dhe fillimit t\u00eb shekullit XIX, dokumentohen dhjet\u00ebra raste t\u00eb tilla n\u00eb gjith\u00eb Anglin\u00eb rurale. Shpesh, k\u00ebto \u201cshitje\u201d ishin rezultat i marr\u00ebveshjes paraprake midis bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve, dhe ndodhte q\u00eb vet\u00eb grat\u00eb pranonin \u201ct\u00eb transferoheshin\u201d te dikush tjet\u00ebr, me shpres\u00ebn e nj\u00eb jete m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebrballja me publikun, posht\u00ebrimi dhe objektifikimi ishin pjes\u00eb e dhimbshme e k\u00ebtij \u201crituali\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ky akt nuk flet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar, por p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sistem t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb shoq\u00ebror ku gruaja ishte pron\u00eb, dhe jo person; ku ndarja dhe dhimbja nuk kishin vend n\u00eb ligj, por n\u00eb spektak\u00ebl. Ky \u201cankand\u201d mbetet si nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e err\u00ebt n\u00eb historin\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve gjinore, por edhe si nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e nevoj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb dinjitetin p\u00ebrpara zakonit.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrgatiti: Albert Vataj<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" 30 Prill 2026 Kjo gravur\u00eb, ashtu si edhe p\u00ebrshkrimi i ngjarjes q\u00eb ke sjell\u00eb, pasqyron nj\u00eb fenomen t\u00eb err\u00ebt, por dometh\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb Anglis\u00eb s\u00eb shekujve XVIII-XIX: shitja publike e grave, nj\u00eb praktik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ishte ligj\u00ebrisht e vlefshme, por n\u00eb disa rrethana shihej si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb \u201ce pranueshme\u201d shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":99760,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[27,85,10,35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-99759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blogu-i-udhetarit","category-histori","category-kultura","category-shoqerore"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.shqiperia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/640-0-angli-1777547642.jpg?fit=640%2C399&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5Z6wp-pX1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":100303,"url":"https:\/\/www.shqiperia.com\/blog\/amedeo-modigliani-vjen-ne-tirane\/","url_meta":{"origin":99759,"position":0},"title":"Amedeo Modigliani vjen ne Tiran\u00eb","author":"Kurt Farka","date":"May 15, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"15 Maji 2026 Ekspozita e mb\u00ebshtetur nga \u201cLuarasi\u201d sjell artin e shek.XX p\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt Amedeo Modigliani, nj\u00eb figur\u00eb emblematike e artit t\u00eb shekullit t\u00eb 20-t\u00eb vjen n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb p\u00ebrmes veprave t\u00eb tij. 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