{"id":26132,"date":"2019-09-21T11:15:54","date_gmt":"2019-09-21T11:15:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shqiperia.com\/blog\/?p=26132"},"modified":"2019-09-21T11:18:05","modified_gmt":"2019-09-21T11:18:05","slug":"besetytnite-si-e-kuptonte-i-ndjeri-nese-i-rimartohej-ish-bashkeshortja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shqiperia.com\/blog\/besetytnite-si-e-kuptonte-i-ndjeri-nese-i-rimartohej-ish-bashkeshortja\/","title":{"rendered":"Bes\u00ebtytnit\u00eb, – Si e kuptonte i ndjeri n\u00ebse i rimartohej ish-bashk\u00ebshortja."},"content":{"rendered":"

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Bes\u00ebtytnit\u00eb, – Si e kuptonte i ndjeri n\u00ebse i rimartohej ish-bashk\u00ebshortja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

mapo.al<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

N\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb tradicionale shqiptare, her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb varreza, v\u00ebrehej nj\u00eb situat\u00eb e till\u00eb:<\/p>\n

Dheu i nj\u00eb varri t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht i lagur dhe mbi varr nj\u00eb shtamb\u00eb, shishe ose vorb\u00eb e thyer.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb mesazhsh p\u00ebrcillnin simbolikisht element\u00ebt e nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb till\u00eb mbi varrin n\u00eb fjal\u00eb?<\/p>\n

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  1. Lagia e dheut t\u00eb varrit tregonte se at\u00eb nat\u00eb martohej p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht ish-bashk\u00ebshorti ose bashk\u00ebshortja e personit q\u00eb prehej aty n\u00eb gjumin e p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Nd\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt, kan\u00eb qen\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapura bes\u00ebtytnit\u00eb se \u201ckufoma e gruas dhe sidomos e burrit ka shum\u00eb shqet\u00ebsime kur rimartohet ish-bashk\u00ebshorti dhe ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht ish-bashk\u00ebshortja, se \u201ckufoma t\u00eb tilla kan\u00eb shum\u00eb zjarrmi nat\u00ebn q\u00eb martohet ish-bashk\u00ebshorti\u201d, se \u201clagia e varrit ndihmon q\u00eb kufoma t\u00eb mos digjet nga zjarrmia q\u00eb shkakton martesa e ish-bashk\u00ebshortit.<\/p>\n

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    1. Shtamba ose vorba q\u00eb kishte mbajtur ujin p\u00ebr sp\u00ebrkatjen e varrit q\u00ebndronte mbi t\u00eb. Familjar\u00ebt e t\u00eb ndjerit ose t\u00eb t\u00eb ndjer\u00ebs q\u00eb lagin varrin me uj\u00eb nuk e kthenin m\u00eb shtamb\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pasi besonin se ato ndillnin fatkeq\u00ebsi, ndillnin mort.<\/li>\n
    2. Shtamba mund t\u00eb ishte e thyer mbi varrin e lagur. P\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht k\u00ebto en\u00eb thyheshin enkas nga familjar\u00eb, t\u00eb af\u00ebrm t\u00eb t\u00eb ndjerit ose t\u00eb t\u00eb ndjer\u00ebs, madje edhe nga t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar me pik\u00ebsynimin q\u00eb p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht ish-bashk\u00ebshortja ose ish-bashk\u00ebshorti i atij ose i asaj q\u00eb flinte n\u00eb varr t\u00eb mos kishte fat n\u00eb kuror\u00eb me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Dhe t\u00eb mos kishe fat n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb do t\u00eb thosht\u00eb t\u00eb mos i jetonin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n
    3. 4<\/strong>. Familjar\u00eb t\u00eb burrit ose t\u00eb gruas q\u00eb martohej p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht me grua apo burr\u00eb t\u00eb ve, vizitonin t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen e martes\u00ebs, sapo zbardhte dita, varrin e ish-bashk\u00ebshortit ose t\u00eb ish-bashk\u00ebshortes.
      \nShtamba e pathyer mbi varrin e lagur u p\u00ebrcillte atyre mesazhin e g\u00ebzuesh\u00ebm se familjar\u00ebt e t\u00eb ndjerit ose t\u00eb ndjer\u00ebs nuk i kishin ndjell\u00eb mbrapshti ose fatkeq\u00ebsi t\u00eb sapomartuarve me thyerjen e shtamb\u00ebs ose t\u00eb vorb\u00ebs n\u00eb fjal\u00eb.<\/li>\n
    4. N\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb tilla, thyerja e shtamb\u00ebs kuptohej si thyerje e ecuris\u00eb s\u00eb mbar\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb \u00e7iftit t\u00eb sapomartuar me partner\/e t\u00eb ve. Ndaj, t\u00eb af\u00ebrm mjaft t\u00eb besuar t\u00eb \u00e7iftit t\u00eb sapomartuar b\u00ebnin kujdes p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbledhur t\u00eb gjitha copat e shtamb\u00ebs ose t\u00eb vorb\u00ebs s\u00eb thyer dhe i \u00e7onin te nj\u00eb po\u00e7ar p\u00ebr t\u2019i ngjitur. Sipas bes\u00ebtytnive, rikuperimi i shtamb\u00ebs s\u00eb thyer n\u00eb varreza n\u00ebnkuptonte rikuperimin e fatit t\u00eb \u00e7iftit. \"\"<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Gazeta mapo.al<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      \u00a0 Bes\u00ebtytnit\u00eb, – Si e kuptonte i ndjeri n\u00ebse i rimartohej ish-bashk\u00ebshortja. mapo.al N\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb tradicionale shqiptare, her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb varreza, v\u00ebrehej nj\u00eb situat\u00eb e till\u00eb: Dheu i nj\u00eb varri t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht i lagur dhe mbi varr nj\u00eb shtamb\u00eb, shishe ose vorb\u00eb e thyer. \u00c7far\u00eb mesazhsh p\u00ebrcillnin simbolikisht element\u00ebt e nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":26133,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[27,35,86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26132","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blogu-i-udhetarit","category-shoqerore","category-trashegimi-kulturore"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.shqiperia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/i-ndjeri-Copy.jpg?fit=800%2C437&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5Z6wp-6Nu","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":69654,"url":"https:\/\/www.shqiperia.com\/blog\/nena-e-re-me-femijen-8-ditesh-burgoset-per-nje-gjobe-kriminelet-lirohen-nga-burgjet\/","url_meta":{"origin":26132,"position":0},"title":"N\u00ebna e re me femijen 8 ditesh burgoset p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gjob\u00eb, Kriminelet lirohen nga burgjet.","author":"Kurt Farka","date":"March 14, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"14 Mars 2023 Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb Naim Bah\u00e7ja nga fshati Drisht i Postrib\u00ebs n\u00eb Shkod\u00ebr i cili prej nj\u00eb jave po kujdeset p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb porsalindur. 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